Lesson
14
Does the Younger Generation Know Best?
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The Younger Generation Knows Best
Old people are always saying that the young are not
what they were. The same comment is made from generation to generation and
it is always true. It has never been truer than it is today. The young are
better educated. They have a lot more money to spend and enjoy more
freedom. They grow up more quickly and are not so dependent on their
parents. They think more for themselves and do not blindly accept the
ideals of their elders. Events which the older generation remembers
vividly are nothing more than past history. This is as it should be. Every
new generation is different from the one that preceded it. Today the
difference is very marked indeed.
The old always assume that they know best far the
simple reason that they have lieen around a bit longer. They don't like to
feel that their values are being questioned or threatened. And this is
precisely what the young are doing. They are questioning the assumptions
of their elders and disturbing their complacency. They take leave to doubt
that the older generation has created the best of all possible worlds.
What they reject more than anything is conformity.
Office
hours, for instance, are nothing more than enforced slavery. Wouldn't
people work best if they were given complete freedom and responsibility?
And what about clothing? Who said that all the men in the world should
wear drab grey suits and convict haircuts? If we turn our minds to more
serious matters, who said that human differences can best be solved
through conventional polities or by violent means? Why have the older
generation so often used violence to solve their problems? Why are they so
unhappy and guilt-ridden in their pexsonal lives, so obsessed with mean
ambitions and the desire to amass more and more material possessions? Can
anything be right with the ratrace? Haven't the old lost touch with all
that is important in life?
These are not questions the older generation can shrug
off lightly. Their record over the past forty years or so hasn' t been
exactly spotless. Traditionally, the young have turned to their elders for
guidance. Today, the situation might be reversed. The old - if they are
prepared to admit it-coutd learn a thing or two from their children. One
of the biggest lessons they could learn is that enjoyment is not
"sinful".
Enjoyment
is a principle one could apply to all aspects of life. It is surely not
wrong to enjoy your work and enjoy your leisure; to shed restricting
inhibitions. It is surely not wrong to live in the present rather than in
the past or future. This emphasis orr the present is only to be expected
because the young have grown up under the shadow of the bomb: the constant
threat of complete annihilation. This is their glorious heritage. Can we
be surprised that they should so often question the sanity of t.he
generaiion that bequeathed it?
II. Read
Read the following passages. Underline the important
viewpoints while reading.
1. Problems of the Young
More than 20 Chinese and American experts discovered
that young people of both countries are facing the same probiems of
economic and social pressures and lack of confidence.
Wayne Meisel, director of the Campus Outreach
Opportunity League of Minnesota University, said that under economic
pressure American young people have to work hard and most students have to
take part-time work in order to support themselves.
"Young people today, ?he said, "are
stereotyped as apathetic, selfcentred, and concerned only with making
money and getting ahead."
In these circumstances, he said, young people lack
confidence,whicb was not the case in the 1960s when young Americans
thought themselves capable of doing anything.
In spite of the different conditions in China, Li
Xuequan, director of the, higher education section of the All-China Youth
Federation, said Chinese young people are alsc facing economic pressure
and are worried about iriflation and corruption.
Trading has appeared in many Chinese universities as students with
something to sell try to make money on campus.
Moreover, Li said, college students have begun to doubt
whether what they are learning in class will help them find work,as many
businesses totally ignore students of pure theory.
So people describe students as "a lost generation
tired of study", regardless
of the causes in society that are shaking their confidence.
In order to resolve these problems, the Chinese and
American experts agreed that youth organizations should call on the whole
of society to create favourable conditions for the healthy growth of young
people, as well as to enconrage them to meet the urgent needs of society
and to challenge the assumption that young people are apathetic and
uncaring.
Meisel said that since last year he has sent letters of
. "challenge to youth" to many young people, urging them to
commit themselves to addressing such needs as feeding the hungry, housing
the homeless, educating the illiterate, consoling the lonely and sick,
serving the elderly,and preserving the environment.
The letter says: "Through service, we touch the
lives of others and enrich our own. "
2. Students' Mental Health
According to a study conducted in Tianjin, out of 50,
000 college students, 16 per cent have suffered from anxiety, nervousness,
depression or problems due to the early onset of sexual awareness. Of
students from elementary school to high school age in shanghai, 27 per
cent have some kind of emotional disorder,are tired of study, have
premature love affairs, smoke or run away from home. In addition, most of
them are bothered by impulsiveness, envy, worry or melancholy. Not a small
number of students show a sense of inferiority, squeamishness, aggression
or strong self-will.
Bad psychological health causes serious repercussions in a
teenager's individual development. In tliree main high s.chools in the
southwest of China, of students leaving school, 74 per cent left due to
bad health and 42.2 per cent of those suffered from emotional problems and
stress.
During puberty, teenagers go through a period of
"changing times? During this time, most teenagers' bodies and sexoal
desires develop. They are beginning to mature both physically and
mentally. But most of them can not become mature in both these areas at
the same time. Some teenagers' emotions remain childish, dependent and
impetuous. hf we do not resolve the problems that face t.eenagers, they
not only will suffer from them, but they will also probably go astray.
3. Worries Induce Emotional Problems
More than 16 per cent of Chinese college and middle
school students have emotional problems caused by concern over exams, poor
relationships with their teachers and a lack. of enthusiasm for their
studies.
Some students feel depressed, fearing they fall short
of their parents' expectations.
An unhappy family Tife can also lead to depression.
These conclusions are the result of research into
emotional problems among college and middle school students.
According to a study of 2, 961 urban,and rural college
and middle school students,. problems arise most frequently in two groups:
students in their first and second year of junior middle schools and those
in their last year at senior middle school . or the first year in
higher-learning institutions.
The survey also revealed that emotional problems
increase as students get older.
The percentage of students with emotional problems in
junior middle schools is around 13 per cent, while the figures for
students in senior middle school and higher-learning institutions are 19
and 25 per cent respectively.
4. Eager to Be Off
Me: |
Mummy. I've been thinking, I think I might go to London at the
end of |
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the week. |
Mama: |
Oh yes? |
Me: |
Yes, a friend of mine wants someone to share a flat and I
thought it |
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would be a good.opportunity for me to... |
Mama: |
Well, that sounds a very good idea. Where exactly is.this flat? |
Me: |
Well, we haven't exactly got one, but I thought I might go and
look - |
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it's easier if you're on the spot. |
Mama: |
Oh yes, I'm sure it is. I hear it's very difficult to find flats
in |
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London these days. ' |
Me: |
(myheart sinking as 1 think of adverts, agencies, Evening
Standards, in |
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etcetera )Oh no, it's not at all difficult, people get
themselves fixed |
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up no time.
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Mama: |
Oh well, I suppose you know better than me. What will you live
on while |
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you're there? |
Me: |
I'll get a job. I'll have to sometime" you know. I'll write
to the |
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Appointments Board. |
Mama: |
Just any sort of job? |
Me: |
Whatever there is. |
Mama: |
Don't you want a proper career, Sarah? I mean to say, with a
degree like |
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yours... |
Me: |
No, not really, I don't know what I want to do. |
Mama: |
I'm not sure I like the idea of your going off all the way to
London |
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without a proper job and with nowhere to live... still, it's
your own |
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life, I suppose. That's what I say. No one can accuse me of
trying |
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to keep you at home, either of you... Who is this friend of
yours?
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Me: |
A girl cailed Gill Slater. She was at Oxford... |
Mama: |
And what does she do? |
Me: |
Oh, She's a -she's a sort of research student. |
Mama: |
Oh yes? Well, it sounds like a very nice idea. After all, you
won't want |
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to stay here all your life cooped up with your poor old mother,
will you? |
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I shall lose all my little ones at one fell swoop, shall I? |
Me: |
Oh, don't be silly. |
Mama: |
What do you mean, don't be silly? It seems to me you're very
eager to be |
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off.
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Me: |
You know that's not it at all. |
Mama: |
Well, what is it then? |
Me: |
Well, it's just that I can't stay here all my life, can I? |
Mama: |
No, of course you can't, nobody ever suggested anything of the
sort . |
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When have I ever tried to keep you at home? Haven' t I just said
that |
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you must lead your own life? After all, that's why we sent you
off to |
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Oxford, it was always me who said you two must go - I don't know
what I |
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wouldn't have given for the opportunities you,ve been given. And
your |
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father wasn't any too keen, believe me. In my day education was
kept |
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for the boys, you know. |
Me: |
Well, you hadn' t any boys to educate, had you? You had to make
do with |
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us.
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5. A Room of One's Own
A: |
Have you ever... you know... sort of... Mum's said to you, like,
Could you |
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help me clear up? So you say, Yes, O. K. and you put your
brother's or |
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sister's things away, and then they come up and they say,
Where's so and so? |
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(Yeah...Yes)But then you think to yourself, Well,it's annoying
to have... to |
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have... to leave somebody's coat or something in the middle of
the room... |
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(Yes... Yes,I know...) Do you know what I mean? |
B: |
And when they do complain, you feel as if you haven't done your
job, but |
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you say, Well, I did pack it away, didn't I?... You know...what
are they |
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then complaining about?
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D: |
It's annoying as well... |
E: |
I do the same. . . I mean if I find anything lying around... if
it's no good |
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I just throw it away... |
A: |
It might mean a lot... |
D: |
I think in my family. ..I think my mother is the most
considerate... she'd |
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ask rather than my father...my father wouldn't. |
A: |
Well, I'm lucky...I've got a room of my own...so... |
D: |
I'd like a room of my own, but then again, you don't keep
everything |
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in your room, do you? My dad or mother goes in there and finds
anything that |
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she doesn't think is necessary... my mother would ask me
first,but my dad... |
B: |
Well, frankly, my mother wouldn't touch anything in my room, you
know... she |
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just doesn' t. She feels I've put it there for some purpose...
but again, if |
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I go into her bedroom... (Yeah... That annoys me... ) But say if
I have a |
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day off from school... or when...or we, ve got some sort of
holiday and |
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I see things arouad and I say, well, you know, I' Il give the
place a good l |
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old clean, at least it'l help...and I put things neatly, it's
all tidy. ..I |
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wouldn't throw anything out, because I'm not sure whether she
wants it or |
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not...and then she comes home, she says, Where's this? where's
that? |
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... I feel awful...
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D: |
And you feel that...um...she doesn't appreciate... |
B: |
... appreciate, you know... I even the other day moved her
bedroom... er... |
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(Furniture) ... furniture around. |
D: |
I did that in my house... |
B: |
I did... I thought it looked awful where it was, you know. |
A: |
But I... what annoys me is my room... is my room ... If... if it
, s in a |
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muddle I know where everything is... I like my room to be in a
mess. |
B: |
But you see, we... I keep that as a sort of main bedroom, you
know... (main |
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room...)Yes, sometimes I don't even sleep in my room, it,s so
cold....
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C: |
Ooh, crumbsl |
B: |
How do you feel on this subject, Pamels? |
D: |
[with a great guffaw] Negative! |
C: |
I always know where everything is in my room even if it is
untidy, but my |
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mother comes along and I can't find anything anywhere. |
A: |
I like it when you get to that age where your parents seem to
realize that |
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you're... you're going off on your own... (Yes... You're growing
up... )...you've |
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got your own life to lead, so you think, Right, we'll leave all
her things, |
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she can do what she likes with them. It's her time, she can do
what she |
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likes with her time.
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B: |
They start frorii a certain point, don't they? |
E: |
Well, I don't think they always do that...They try to remember
that you're |
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growing up and then they forget. |
D: |
Yes...they try to protect you... |
E: |
They' re treating you like children and telling you where to put
things... |
C: |
...going round tidying up after you. |
6. "Intimate Elder Sisters" Allay Teenagers' Worries
Xiao Lin, a third year junior high school student from
Beijing, packed his books and clothes and left home, with tears in his
eyes.
He felt his divorced parents never loved him. He felt
lonely, but he did not know where to go.
He thought of 440779, a phone number to reach the
so-called "Intimate Elder Sisters".
That day was a day to remember in'his whole life. One
of the sisters came to see him, and to his utter enjoyment, spent .the day
playing with him .
"She told me 'The world is not as cold as you
think it is. There is so much love here. I love you. Your friends love
you.'"
Xiao Lin stayed at home, trying to fill it with the
love he got from his Intimate Elder Sister.
Actually, the Intimate Elder Sisters are Wu Ruomei, I.u
Qin, Ge Shujuan and Huang Xiaopo, editors o# the China Chiidren's News.
Since they opened the hot line in March 1988, they have received mor.e
than 10,000 calls from children across the country.
"We hope to ease their troub(es through heart-to-heart
chats," said Wu Ruomei. Many of the children they talked to were
disturbed by secrets they felt obliged to keep from both their parents and
their teachers.
Children reach the Elder Sisters every day by phone
with a wide range of funny or astonishing questions. "I' m growing
into a fatty, sister, and I don't want that," and, "What do
children on other planets look like?"
The questions are not always small and easy to solve.
Yet, " Even if we just listen to these children' s sobbing, we' re
helping them out of their loneliness," Wu said.
When Iittle Yanni called her Elder Sister in Beijing
from Wuhan, she was weeping. "Mama is dying from cancer," she
said. "I don't want her to leave me."
After comforting little Yanni, her Sisters informed
children in other parts of the country, who sent Yanni and her mother
letters and gifts, encouraging them to fight the disease courageously.
A Beijing boy refused to be identified on the phone.
But he told his Elder Sister his cousin had accidentally injured another
child and had to pay all the medical fees. Afraid of informing.his
parents, he had stolen 110 yuan from a classmate's home and was discovered
later. He was in great distress, but did not know what to do.
Wu said to him, "The boy's actions are forgiveable.
Once he clears up the situation, he'll.win the trust of others.?Her sense
told her that the boy was talking about himself.
After the call, Wu wrote to the boy's father, asking
them to help the boy.
A few days later, a boy appeared before the editors. It
was he who had taken the money. Now, a good student in No 20. Middle
School of Beijing, he often visits with his Elder Sisters.
During the past year, Wu and her colleagues also opened
the hot line for a short period in eight other cities in the country. In
Nanning, capital of South China' s Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region, they
received 509 calls in three days.
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